Saturday, June 28, 2014

UPDATE

HELLO PEOPLE! 
i'm officially in alderson, wv. 

after a near perfect few days in southern illinois (family, baths, food, swimming), mom and i hit the road. we left late sunday afternoon and drove to lexington, kentucky, where we ate cracker barrel and stayed in a hotel across the street from the hustler hollywood "adult shop". it was lovely. on monday we made our way to pipestem state park, just an hour's drive from alderson. we hiked, ate, sat on the balcony, and had a great last night. then on tuesday we drove in to alderson and found the house! after some good meals and blueberry picking, mom left me alone in west virginia!!!




everything is so very different from home and chicago, but i like it. 

first of all, i have down time...without anything that i have to do. i'm sure that part of this is owed to being done with school, but it is also because of where i am. the people around me prioritize what they actually find important. coming out of school, where so much was decided for me or demanded from me, it's really exciting to be making such simple decisions about my time. 

next, i don't think anyone sleeps. everyone is always busy; running from meeting to meeting, sweeping up the floor before picking herbs from the garden, or getting dinner on the table while taking phone calls. so far i've really just been going through the motions, trying to figure out the routines and where i'll fit in this organized whirlwind. it is a bit intimidating because there is so much happening, but i'm figuring it out.

a quick introduction to the people that might be mentioned: brian and kathleen - they are the directors of the hospitality house. they are married and live just off the house grounds, about a quarter of a block away. they are super full of love and eager to do just about everything, including teach me A LOT. catherine - she is a volunteer/worker for the summer. she is about to be a senior at virginia tech and spent last summer here as well. she focuses mostly on gardening and agriculture and lives in the house with me. She also is very willing to lead me through the routines!!

wednesday night, i stayed in the house with my first guest! the prison camp had an immediate release, someone that cannot legally stay another night because their sentence has changed or they are overdue. this individual's sentence was cut in half and she had already served past that time. she was headed home on thursday morning, but needed a place to stay wednesday night. it was awesome to help welcome her and talk with her about self-confidence of young girls, making the gym a priority, and horoscopes (some of my favorite topics!!). 

thursday night and friday night we had families and individuals as guests. the highlight was friday night dinner. not only was the food incredibly delicious (pasta, homemade bread, spiced up green beans, and blueberry cobbler), but the community felt like a family. the meal was loud and interactive. while most of these people don't know each other well, and i certainly don't know them at all, you would never have guessed that by watching at dinner. 

overall, i'm doing well. working to find my place here, a tad intimidated by all the changes, and missing everyone back home, but still happy to be here and excited for everything ahead. 
XOXOXO

3 comments:

  1. Julia: This is the third time I have attempted to post and am really disappointed in that I have already used up my very articulate words and phrases!
    Don't expect much as I begin again.
    I think I said that I knew you would be busy right away after leaving and that you have already had experiences with people and circumstances that most of us will never encounter. You are a special person in a very special place.
    On that long train trip from Alderson to Indianapolis I had a great deal of time to reflect on my time with you. In addition to the wonderful trip we shared, I could not help but think about the nonjudgmental stance that Kathleen and Brian live by. I learned from them in the short amount of time I had with them and feel privileged to have spent time with you in that environment. You are truly doing important work and I am proud of you for the sacraiices you are making. God bless you.
    Also, go to the hardware store and buy some work gloves for you and Joann so you can pull weeds in comfort (?) this week. I love you. xoxoxooxo

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  2. wow ju! sounds like you've landed in a perfect spot to relax and unwind from the busy city life! its great to hear that everyone seems to be like one big family already. I must admit that I was a bit concerned about you heading off to a place that was about as different from where you have spent the last four years as could be. I know that you could adjust to any situation and make a positive impact no matter the location but its comforting to hear and know that the people you are involved with share a lot of the same views and values of the world that I know you do. such incredible giving people!

    it appears to be a beautiful location from the couple of pics you posted and please continue to share with us all. know that we are all proud of you for this choice you have made and im sure that it will be one of many learning, life changing, and hopefully fun memories you will talk of for the rest of your life!

    breathe deep of the gorgeous mountain air and experience all you can while there. your time will be short and before you know you will have to decide on where to go next!

    love you so much and am so proud of you and happy for you!
    dad

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  3. i have now written this post THREE times.

    clearly i am late to the party, but wanted to leave you a little love and encouragement. i love to get updates about your life and world there, and am so happy that you are there and settling in. no doubt you are working hard and soaking up everything that the experience (maybe one that is once in a lifetime!) has to offer you at this time. looking forward to you making me bread for the rest of my life. : )

    it's monday morning in sf, which means it's monday afternoon in alderson, which is actually like your friday afternoon. i am listening to kid cudi and pretending it's my friday afternoon too. love and miss you every single day!

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